John C. Gover, age 67, of Lowry City, Missouri passed away on Monday, February 5, 2024 at Golden Valley Memorial Hospital in Clinton, Missouri. Funeral services will be held at 11:00 AM on Wednesday, February 14, 2024 at the Vansant-Mills Chapel in Clinton with visitation from 10:00-11:00 Am prior the service. Cremation to follow. Memorial contributions can be made to the Valley Center Christian Church and may be left in care of the funeral home. Fond memories and condolences can be left online at www.vansant-millsfuneralhome.com.
John Charles Gover, was born on October 4, 1956, in Appleton City, St Clair Co., Missouri, he was a cherished husband, father, brother, and friend whose life was a beacon of kindness, innovation, and love.
From his early days on the family farm, near Bear Creek, to his christening at the Bear Creek Church and schooling in Osceola, John’s roots ran deep in Missouri soil as he would live here his entire life. John’s life was further enriched when he met and married Patricia Childs in February 1980. Together they had two sons, Nicholas and Jason.
His life was a journey of constant learning and giving, from opening his stereo shop, Mr. Audio, to serving as the County Assessor and Director of Emergency Management for Henry County. John, alongside his family, ventured into the hospitality industry, operating multiple restaurants that became local favorites. John’s commitment to public service was profound, touching lives through his roles as a volunteer firefighter, EMT, and dedicated church member.
John’s passions painted a picture of a man deeply connected to the world around him. John’s affinity for gardening went beyond a mere hobby; it was an expression of his love for nurturing life and sharing its fruits with those around him. He took particular pride in his tomatoes, green beans, corn, and cantaloupes. A constant companion while gardening, and one of his most prized possessions, was his Kubota LA435 Front Loader tractor, a symbol of his love for farming and a tool that he cherished and protected zealously. His technological prowess and inventive mind led to creations that improved the lives of those he cared for, embodying his role as a true jack of all trades. Even learning how to fly planes, taking his family on several trips.
John’s love for animals knew no bounds, he generously provided food for strays, transforming an old dog house into a shelter for them. Later in life, his beloved pets, Buddy and Sissy, frequently sought comfort in John’s lap, whether he was surfing the internet or enjoying a TV show. Visits from his son’s dog Star always brightened his day.
A gifted musician, John discovered his musical talent early in life and learned to be proficient with several instruments over time. Later in life he learned the guitar and fiddle becoming a beloved member of the band “County Clair,” bringing joy through music to many, especially the residents of Truman Lake Manor. John harbored a deep fascination for World War II history and cinema, often immersing himself in films related to the era. His enduring affection for the 1981 German submarine epic, “Das Boot,” led him to purchase the DVD on multiple occasions, much to his family’s amusement.
John’s sons fondly remember the times spent riding alongside him on the tractor, engaging in farm work as a family. Equally memorable were the moments gathered around the Atari console in their old living room, where John introduced them to the joys of playing Asteroids. This shared passion for gaming bridged generations, connecting John not only with his sons and grandson but also with new friends made online. Known by his handle JobieRay in the gaming community, John’s zeal for video games, particularly his remarkable dedication to the game Rust, where he logged “almost” countless hours, highlighted his commitment to the online connections he built. In sharing his passions, John cherished the moments spent with his grandson Everett, fostering a special bond through shared experiences and interests.
One of his last great adventures took place in September of 2022, John embarked on a special journey with his partner Laurie to explore her roots along the St. Lawrence River. John found himself enamored with the region’s charm. He was particularly fascinated by watching pilots navigate the majestic freighters. The trip left him yearning to return and experience its beauty once again in the future.
Survived by his two sons; Nick and wife Claudia, and grandson Everett Gover of Kansas City, MO, and Jason Lee Gover of Rolla, MO; and his siblings, Frank R Gover, Jeannie Cloud, and Barbara Darnell, John’s legacy of love and kindness also lives on through his partner, Laurie Oakes. Each of these individuals played a significant role in John’s life, contributing to the rich tapestry of love, support, and companionship that defined his journey.
Preceded in death by his parents, Frank L. and Dorothy O., and his wife, Patricia Ruth., John’s legacy is a testament to the impact one life can have on many. His gentle soul, humble nature, and unwavering willingness to help anyone in need were hallmarks of his character.
John approached life with a sharp mind, a kind heart, and an unquenchable passion. His resilience, sense of humor, and childlike spirit made every moment with him a gift. His loss leaves a void in the hearts of those who knew him, but his spirit will forever inspire us to live fully, love deeply, and give generously.
In memory of John, let us honor his legacy by embracing his values of kindness, curiosity, and community. May his soul find eternal peace, and may his memory continue to light the way for all who were fortunate enough to know him.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Vansant-Mills Funeral Home in Clinton, Missouri.
